As time goes by and as school is starting. I am appreciating what God has in store for me in this year. I have made PROPER friends. Friends whom understands the meaning of friendship. It has been a tired and gruesome week as we prepare ourselves for this Friday's Teachers day. Well all i have to say is i guess this whole week, it made me realise who my clique are and how to be a good leader. Its all about responsibility and respect. Nothing has changed in me i guess its just that i will always stick to my perspective that i will respect you if and only if you have respect me back. Friendship is about understanding and listening. Not talking without proper induction before making some statement. I have learn't a lot this week, seen a lot and i believe there's much more for me to explore, understand, see and hear :) One thing for sure i have in mind for today is RESPECT!
Have a little solitary, respect and smile! xxx AMBER. Love you ANDREA WONG & BEVERLY RACHEL
Meet my new friends :) awesome~posem people!
Meet my close friend. Fasyah and I (:
Timmy Yee :) Very pro in P.A system
Another of my close friend Viviana Benedict. :) Sorry, picture sideways :(
Ayub, Jaynal & Rafiq
New school :)
Rafiq and i
Syadiqin, my other close friends, So theres 4 of us, Dyqin, Vi, Asyah and me :D
Okay soo today i started going to school by my self. My mind was ready and i was prepared to make new friends. It was during the first period that we were asked to go up front to introduce ourselves. The moment i said my name and where my previous school was, everyone stared at me as if i came from some alien school and place. They start calling me ORANG PUTIH (white) because i was tall and very fair. I used to like people calling me that but somehow today i found it annoying and i felt pretty left out. :O The fact that no one seems to speak English and i tried speaking Malay, yet everyone seems to try really hard to converse in English with me. But sad to say, i don't even understand what they are saying to me when they spoke English. I was stared by 77 pairs of eyes today as they were about 78 of us in Sixth form through out the period of 8.30am till 12.30pm. :O
God save me. Have mercy on me. I sat with two weird people today. One Chinese girl who seem to only speak Chinese and stare blankly with mouth wide open! And on the other side, a girl who kept on staring at herself in front of her pocket mirror. All throughout the session of orientation. According to the teachers whom i don't even know their names said the orientation will last till Thursday. Well what more can i say but i wish orientation will be over soon and we get our lasses so i can make PROPER friends.
God please make Thursday come faster and tomorrow a better day than today. Yet i still THANK You for a not soo bad day (: I guess I've had enough for today! *sighs* Another day again tomorrow. All i need is
A little SOLITARY, a little FAITH and a little COURAGE
SMILE. (:
p/s I LOVE BOTH OF YOU AND I MISS YOU AND YOUR COMPANY. ANDREAWONG,BEVERLYRACHEL ilove u :O
My time of doing nothing and not studying is finally going to be over by Monday! :D I am going to start school in Labaun, SMK Labuan. New school, new friends, new environment and alot of new stuffs. Nervous and excited should describe how i feel now. OMG! I still couldn't believe myself. I made a big step in to a new life. I guess everything is changing :( Sadly enough I'll be leaving my friends and KK for 2 years! TWO!! :(( WOW. But one thing I'll never want to change is MYSELF just to fit in with the people and culture here. Its odd that no one uses English as their mother tongue. Not that its bad but its because my MALAY is HORRIBLE! :( Ohh well, what more can i say but to just move ahead and keep going for the better of my future :)
So what I've learn't, i guess is that people and places will change but Gods plan for our future will never change. Sometimes His plans comes by surprise and we will never expected it. But in the end it will end up good. Yes they will be heartbreak and struggle through the process but in the end when you look back, its all worth the struggle and pain. And if you are wondering how am i to know this. Let me just say, its the best thing that have happened to me :) and i know there's more to come in my future :D
Again have a little faith, smile and a little solitary!
P/S HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!
I love both my besties :)
For life besties we will be :)
xxx
AMBER
Seems like today to me, this year is going to be different. Went to school for M.A.K. Met all my teachers whom are really nice to me. The difference was i went as a ex-student. It felt weird and i felt guilty that i failed to help my bestie to take her awards because our name was close to each other. :( I M SOO SORRY. But other than that, i am now currently writing a journal about life and stuff of me and my 2 best friend. So that someday when i read it, i will always remember this year 2011. The year that might bring alot of changes in our lives and already are. I miss my best friend in USA. I seriously miss talking to her about sooo MANY things. Anyway, this Journal.
Hmm this Journal is called THIS JOURNAL BELONGS. I know it sound all plain and stuffs but it means alot, it means it could belong to any of us. Continue writing it and it will mean something. Its our journey from 2011 onwards. With pictures and journeys from all 3 of us. Maybe also about others around us. The events that has been happening in our life. I hope to continue writing this journal till the day i die, so that someday someone might read it and know what friendship is like and how we cope with it, so that they'll know that no matter how far we are from each other we try our best to be close to each other. And that is what sisterhood and friendship are all about. So that someday they will continue this journal for me about their friendship and sisterhood. This journal maybe a thing that i start because i was bored and i've got nothing else to do, but i tell you this, its something you'll never want to miss out doing in your life.
Start writing a journal atleast for yourself or do it, maybe like me for friendship and sisterhood.
So that someday when you feel like reading something, read it and read it from the start, i promise you,
IT WILL DEFINITELY MAKE YOU SMILE
Soo have a little COURAGE, have a little FAITH, have a little SOLITARY in life.
p/s i miss u guys both. still no matter how close and far we are from each other.
xxx
AMBERSTORIES
Today , I talked about mama and papa. Some how i cried less than i use to but when i just sat in my room staring at the pretty white walls, tears slowly roll down. And i cry and cry and cry and cry. I ask myself deep in my heart behind those tears. Why? why am i crying? Why didnt i cry when i talked about it just now? Why now? Maybe it meant NOTHING when i talked. Or maybe there is something. I know there's no solid answer. Maybe if i, through this hurt live and learn and try, try to search for papa. But how could i ever be normal? How? There's to many questions unanswered. Probably its up to me to answer it or shall i just ignore it? I just felt so far away from papa. The more i move on the more harder it is for me to put him back in my heart. And i hate this. I want him close, close to me so that i wont ever feel the distance . I want the feeling of secure and closeness that no one and i mean NO ONE could replace.
When i lay down on my bed, i miss those times when i can just walk into his room, lay on his bed and just sleep there until he comes back from work knowing he'll never wake me up but instead tuck me in. Then when i finally woke up he would say "So Manja laa you girl" *manja means spoiled* and i would just smile and hug him. Or the moments like walking with him because people always just somehow knows i am his daughter and when he fetch me from school and brings me to lunch and training. The fact that we talked like father and daughter in the restaurant, made me feel closer to him. God if i had a chance to ask you a question, it'd be "Why did you spare me 2 months in getting to know my dad and get closer to him, yet take him away from me right after?"
In that 2 months. I get to learn about my dad. So much that i thought i barely knew him. I was never this close to my dad until the last 2 months before he left. My wish came true. To get to know my dad. Get closer to him. Listen to him and understands him. Most importantly loving him more than i use to. I am glad he was able to do the same. But 2 months? 2 months is not enough. If i could trade a few years of my life for him i would. I'd rather have him for years and not getting to know him that well than 2 months of bonding yet looses him in the end. Yes, i know people die and that's the fact of life. I know i say things like "Love with open heart like open palms, so next time its easier to let go". The bad news is, I love him with an open heart and closed it right that instance, now i couldn't let go, I don't want to.
Someday i wish some one could answer all these question for me. Give me an answer. So that i could stop using IF. So that i don't have to always write all this depressing stuff when it comes to mind. So that i can let go. And for now the only person that could answer all these is DADDY. But he is no longer here to answer me. I need an answer. Maybe i wish i could tell you daddy, tell you how much i LOVE you even without those 2 months. YOU meant soo much to me daddy. You and only you could ever understand how i feel about everything. Only you can understand my thought by just looking at me. But daddy where are you now? Can you hear me? DO you know i feel now?
I am terrified to love. Terrified to lose someone i love and not being able to let go. To get hurt. I am tired of crying and trying. I m tired. Just tired.
Well i guess the title says it all. Comes from a movie. stealing the meaning of the movie and post it in her blog. well if you did guess that. I'll prove you wrong! *partly prove you wrong* :P My bestie and i went to watch that movie yesterday as i am now back in Malaysia :) I miss England and how things and people are. I m trying to get use to the Malaysian thingy and style again :) Back to the point. Just Go With It remind us(more of me i guess) that sometimes we need to take a chance and look deeper in life. Because the one or things you love might just be right in front of your eyes and you never notice. Maybe its time to look and understand. Seek and find. Fall and pick ourselves up again.
As we talk while we waited for the movie, i realised how much we have both grown in these past few months. We are big girls now. More sensitive with girls issues but nonetheless we are still who we are. She have really thought me alot about dealing with my feelings. But girl this i tell you, we fall and break. Its hard and it hurts but look deeper inside he might be just there waiting for you. Sometimes its better to be friends than to be nothing at all. Sometimes it makes you feel better by looking at them being happy. And God will bless you abundantly, for giving love and asked nothing in return. Because that is what He did and that is what love is all about. I love you. :) You know who you are.
And to my bestie somewhere in the world not Malaysia. I love you alot and i miss you. wish you are here to listen and share with us all about your current life. Enjoy your life and i know you will. Stay positive like you always do and again I LOOVE YOU. TAKE CARE :)
As for me, I dont really know. But if he is reading this somewhere. I want work things out. Even if you dont. I wish we could atleast stay as friends. You are who you are and never change yourself because its the only reason why i first liked you. Again, I promised myself to have a little solitary and a little courage in life.
P/S: You know who you all are. And i love you :)
xoxo
So here goes to my results which is utter disappointment and a life not in order but in control of someone else. Just when we thought the people whom we thought might understands us turn their back against us. Decisions of where to go for my future and stuffs. I wish my dad is here just to tell me what to do and what is best for me. I MISS HIM. I just want him to take me out for dinner and talk like usual about everything. I know i still can do that. But the real thing is he is no longer there to answer me like he does for 17 years of my life. There goes again to decision. I cant make.
Heartbreak? Yea.. did i actually really fell in LOVE with someone? I guess i did. I almost gave my heart then i realise he wont give me back his heart because it wont work? I have been putting effort, sometimes i dont talk just to see if he does talk but no surprise, he never did start a conversation. I guess its over. There goes to my 1st heartbreak. Then, I am leaving England in less than a week now. Another heartbreak.
I am trying. trying really hard to understand alot of things that are happening in my life right now. I wonder if it meant anything. I guess it doesnt. But sometimes i feel it does. I dont know. Understanding was easy for me when i had someone close to explain it to me. Tell me on our journey back home what it meant. My best~est friend. Now, he is gone. Physically gone.
I guess this is what life is all about. I've got God and i've got myself.
